Do Good Deeds.

Do good things and good things will happen to you.

People underestimate the power of doing good deeds.

Donating, giving a helping hand, saying something nice and even as simple as smiling. In the short run, speaking from experience, it feels like trying to carry water in a sieve. It seems like the things you do don’t get appreciation. (Although when you do things, don’t do them solely for approval or a thank. But that’s for another post.) In the long run, you’ll see how being generally nice affects your everyday life.

You’ll feel much more relaxed. You’ll notice more things to be grateful about. You’ll find yourself more content. And when these things start happening, when you start realising the changes, you might find it weird at first.

There are fewer things that make you angry. You tend to avoid things that specifically makes you upset which in turn, saves you from a lot of cursing and late night headaches. Unfortunately, some people might find you annoying with your overly relaxed state. (Because according to society, there’s always something wrong with you. And that, kids, is why you shouldn’t give a flying fuck about what others think of you).

They might find it weird. But I do what I do. Some say it gullible. I say it’s just being rational.

I don’t have time to waste hurting other people. Just as there’s not enough time in my life to do good things for my loved ones to justify their existence in my world. So I do the next best thing, just try to make the now count.

The World As We Know It.

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I just finished watching the Before The Flood documentary.

I feel like giving the Earth a hug and telling it sorry repeatedly.

I don’t think we all realise how much we’re hurting the Earth and the ecosystem. As much as I would like to see myself as a non-polluter, I still use palm oil for cooking, I still drive cars that contribute to carbon dioxide emissions, I still eat beef (although not too often because I don’t really like the taste of beef) that contribute to the methane emissions to the atmosphere.

The human race is going through a revolutionary phase. Technology is getting better and we’re making all this massive progress to create a better lifestyle for the future generation. All of this is great and I am a fan of all the latest gizmos. But we’ve neglected the state of our little planet we call home.

I still don’t understand why some people don’t believe in climate change. The data is there and we’re experiencing it right now. Extreme storms, droughts, rising sea levels, increasing temperature. We’re going through all of this and most of us aren’t really doing anything to make it better. In fact, we’re ignoring all these signs and just living with this guilt and saying to ourselves “we’re going to die anyway.”.

Somehow, the majority of us think the government will take care of it, magically. In reality, we are the ones responsible for making a change. That’s a common misconception with all people. They think whatever action they take are insignificant, so they end up not doing it at all.

Whatever you do in your life, as insignificant as you think it may be, if you do it every day, it’ll accumulate and lead to something bigger which in return will make you a better person or create the change you want to see in society.

I’m getting side tracked here.

If it’s about religion (which I don’t really understand why religion is a factor to not believe in climate change), it’s not really us trying to stop it from happening (trying to act God, if that’s what they’re implying), it is still going to happen. But, it’s more of an effort to slow down the rapidly increasing temperature. Whatever happens after the effort, we’ll have to accept it.

This is a catastrophic problem.

One that will probably eradicate life on earth. Possibly all humans. If it is what God Wills, then may God have mercy on our souls. This is what we deserve for all the years of greed and neglecting. But are we going to just sit around and not make an effort to take care of all God’s creation?

Not to mention nature is also suffering. The animals, the plants, the ocean life. Soon, all of the human kind will be suffering from lack of food resources and storms and droughts. There are some countries that have already suffered from the effects of global warming. Floods and storms are chasing them away from their homes.

Change is hard. But this particular problem has an expiry date.

We can’t deny it any longer. It’s already happening. The future generation is counting on us to take action. They don’t understand it yet, but we do.

We hold the responsibilities for an awesome-r future.

Embrace that responsibility and make something great.

We all have to.

P.S. This might be the year I’m getting environmentally more conscious. Which is great but also weird. But also necessary.

Moonlight.

“From that first moment I laid my eyes on you, I knew I had to spend the rest of my life avoiding you,” He said. She could feel her vibration of his voice through his chest.

“What?” She chuckled.

“The day we met, the day John introduced you to me, I knew there was no way I could hide my feelings. That spark, from the second your eyes meet mine, I knew I wanted to see those eyes every day. From the moment I wake up to the moment I fall asleep, for the rest of my life.”

She lifted her head from his shoulder and looked him in the eyes.

“But you… You were with him. I knew I could never be that arsehole, stealing you from him. I would never do that to my best friend.” He looked her in the eyes. Her eyes were like crystals under the moonlight.

“Every time John invited me to hang out with you guys, I would always find some stupid excuse not to. I didn’t want to lead those feelings on. But that didn’t help, did it?” He let out a small laugh. “We’d end up bumping into each other anyway,” He kissed her on the forehead. She closed her eyes feeling his lips so warm and soft.

“All those stories he told me. How amazing you were, how funny you were. They just confirmed what I felt for you,” He took a step back and twirled her and pulled her close to his body again.

“That I love you.” He whispered in her ears. “I loved you so much, I was willing to let you love another man,”

“You’ve never told me this,” she said.

“Some part of me wish I did.” He took a deep breath. Their bodies move so elegantly, in tune with the jazz song playing from an iPhone. “But what matters is we’re here, together. Right now.” He continued.

“I don’t know what to say…” She whispered.

“Then don’t,” He said. “Let’s just enjoy this moment.”


I’m listening to Ed Sheeran’s new song called Perfect and I just had to write something based on it. I’ve been writing fluff a lot this week and it is weeeeird.

I feel like I’m in love but I’m single as fuck. Hahahaha. Okay bye.

Bittersweet.

aaron-burden-215162.jpgThe grass will always seem greener on the other side.

It will never be enough in your own roof.

And so you seek to find something.

Maybe something better. Maybe something different. Something that does not belong to you.

And you get happy for a while.

Experiencing new things. Learning. Meeting. Seeing.

Until that happiness subsides. And all you’re left with is emptiness.

You can’t connect.

And you find yourself totally isolated from the things you genuinely love.

So, you return to your home.

Just to find that everything has changed.

There is a bittersweet feeling for all of this.

You finally realise the grass was always much greener where you grew up.

But there was a cost in realising it.

Such a bittersweet revelation.

To Be Famous in Death.

Lux Narayan and I share the same weird habit of ‘liking’ to read the obituaries. Although I don’t read the newspaper that much. But when I do, I make sure to read the obituaries.  I mean, it’s why their families put it there right? For people to be informed of their beloved’s passing.

Anyway, Lux Narayan sought out to find what these obituaries have in common. He ended up examining two thousand of them. Watch the video to find out.

At the end of his TED Talk, he says:

If more people lived their lives trying to be famous in death, the world would be a much better place.

As cliche as it may sound, it is a true phrase.

When you die, you would want people to remember you were someone who was amazing or talented or kind. Nobody wants to dissed at when they die, even though they’re not alive to hear it.

Death is a real thing. You can’t resurrect yourself. When you die, you only leave one thing to the people who knew you. And that is memories of you.

Work hard to make those memories a sweet one.

One that would make the people who knew you cry and smile at the same time.

 

Happy International Women’s Day!

gaelle-marcel-206893.jpgHappy International Women’s Day to all!

While there is still struggle for women’s rights, I think we can all say that the society’s attitude towards working women has changed a lot, positively.

With that said, I’d like to share a story of my own.

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